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Not emotionally. Sexually.
After seven years of monogamous bliss, my partner Mike, two years older, two inches taller, and apparently two egos too many, decided it was time to “open things up.” Not emotionally. Sexually. To other men.
Gary Domasin
Gary Domasin has been an adjunct faculty member at the USC School of Dramatic Arts since 2016 and a hairstylist at Salon Aguayo since 2014. In 2025, he began writing for SoCalMag, where Ask Uncle Gary delivers sharp insight grounded in experience.
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My mom is 39, dating her coworker, who is 20.
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Is it normal...
I have a question that feels a little unusual, and I haven’t met anyone, or even heard of anyone, in quite the same situation. Is it normal for me not to orgasm during sex?
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Am I the bad guy, Uncle Gary?
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I’m five months postpartum with our second child, and I’ve been carrying around about 40 extra pounds from the pregnancy.
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