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I've been around long enough to know that most problems look different once you say them out loud. So say them to me.
No-Judgment Zone“My best friend just started dating my ex. Am I being petty to feel betrayed?”
— Signed, Betrayed“I ghosted someone I genuinely liked because I panicked. Now they're with someone else.”
— Signed, Kicking Myself“My boyfriend claps when the plane lands. Every time. Is this a red flag?”
— Signed, Turbulence in Aisle 3